Monday, May 25, 2015

Farewells and Goodbyes




Two young men donned their uniforms, said goodbye to their families, and boarded the train. One, a young man who worked with his hands, enlisted in the Army Air Corp and headed to Scott Air Force Base to attend radio school training. The other, an artist/musician, traveled to the east coast after being drafted.  What they had in common was that they were about to embark on a journey that would forever change the lives of the entire world. There is a reason that men and women such as these were called “The Greatest Generation”.

The young man who worked with his hands would eventually be stationed in the South Pacific as a radio operator for the Army Air Corp, the predecessor of the United States Air Force. He spent time on Christmas Island, Easter Island, Palau, Peleliu, and Okinawa where one of the largest battles in the South Pacific was fought.   The following is an excerpt from a letter this man wrote on September 2, 1945, while stationed in Okinawa: “While I was at Peleliu, I learned of Tony’s (friend from back home) death on Okinawa. It seems rather strange but I am now located about two hundred yards from the Sixth Marine Cemetery. From our area, we can see the white crosses gleaming across the way. This morning I visited the cemetery and located Tony’s grave. What kept me from crying out loud, I’ll never know but as I was kneeling before his cross, my eyes and heart were filled with tears and all I could think of were those happy days before the war. If more people felt as I do now, all future wars would surely be avoided.”  This man returned home, married the woman he fell in love with through letters written back and forth during the war, raised a family, and continued his service to our country for twenty-five years. He proudly displayed the flag every morning and removed it before sunset each evening. If you were asked (or allowed) to do either for him, it was considered an honor.

After being drafted and going through a thorough background check of both he and his family, the artist/musician was given the assignment to design a large-scale model of Omaha and Juno beaches in German occupied France. These models were used to plan the D-Day Invasion of Normandy in June of 1944. The invasion was an attempt to stop the threat of Nazi control throughout Europe. Ironically, this same young man was handed a rifle and found himself taking part in that battle. He was part of the second wave to storm the same beaches that he himself had made a model design. He was later quoted by saying “many of my friends drowned that morning as the first wave was stacked up on the beach and the second wave had to swim to the beach”.  After viewing “Saving Private Ryan” some fifty years later, the man stated “the film was very accurate”.  This man returned home to his wife, welcomed a son nine months later, went on to father four more children, and worked as an independent commercial artist until his retirement.

These two young men were the fortunate ones to survive the war and return home to their families. Many lost their lives including one young man, a 23-year-old baseball player from the Midwest who stepped on a land mine in Normandy and never made it home to his family. It took four long years for his body to return to United States soil. His final resting place is Camp Butler National Cemetery, Springfield, Illinois.

The men and women of World War II risked and sacrificed their lives for our freedom. Some didn’t make it home, some were away from their families for four long years, and some were wounded and physically unable to lead a normal life once they did return home. As we go about our day, remember those who risked and sacrificed their lives so that we can walk freely upon American ground. These men and women took honor in our flag. To them, the flag was a symbol of American freedom; fly it with pride. 

Journalist Tom Brokaw was quoted in his book “The Greatest Generation” "it is, I believe, the greatest generation any society has ever produced." These men and women didn’t fight for fame.  They willingly fought because they loved their country and it was “the right thing to do”.  

Today, let’s honor those who fought for our freedom and led the way for us to speak without fear of retaliation, practice religious freedom without fear of persecution, live without fear of attacks from our neighbors throughout the world, and freedom to own our own homes, seek employment to support our families, and obtain an education to better or lives.

If you knew or know at WWII veteran, consider yourself blessed!  Thank them as well as any military person serving in any capacity yesterday or today.  We fight a different battle today but none like the ones fought in WWII that changed our lives forever.


In honor of:
Chester R. Starcevic (Technical Sergeant, 148th Army Airway Communications)    

My Father

Photo taken in front of his mother’s home in Peoria, Illinois





Orlin E. Clarquist (Staff Sergeant, 5th Army Corp Engineers)  

 A man I wish I had known, my father-in-law
 
Photo taken in Ireland during the time he was building the models of Omaha and Juno beaches




In memory of:

Donald L. McDonough (Sergeant (Infantry Ranger), United States Army
Killed in action, Normandy, France; July 27, 1944  

My mother’s brother and my namesake

I have my grandmother’s wallet and this picture is still in that wallet. She carried it with her for 44 years until her death in 1988.
 


 
 

Thursday, May 14, 2015

Slicing and Scribing



Have you ever found yourself thrown into a room of unknown faces and wondered “how will I ever survive this semester; I don’t even want to be here let alone sit next to someone that I’m not sure I will even like?”  It was the fall of 1984 and I decided it was time to return to school and finish my college education. I had put it on hold while I was raising my family. I was already working in the health care field in the medical record arena and I had no desire to provide direct patient care; the thought of someone hurling sputum at me turned my stomach.  Obtaining my degree in Health Information Management meant that I had to endure many of the same courses that nursing students suffered through as well.  This simple curriculum of having to take Anatomy and Physiology proved to be a life changing experience for me. I found a friend for life!

For the next academic year, Tuesday and Thursday evenings were dedicated to my Anatomy & Physiology courses. We had a relatively small class and, as usual, on the first class everyone took their seat that would be their “home” for the next 32 weeks. Sitting in class is very similar to the seat one takes in church. You choose a seat and no one better try to sit in it!  I chose a seat close to the door, near the back of the room. Class started promptly at 6:00 pm.

On the first night, several minutes after 6:00, the door opened and a darling little blond rushed in and took the seat next to mine.  I gave her a quick smile but being the studious student that I was, I got back to paying attention to the instructor explaining the course syllabus. I did notice, however, that the cute blond girl smelled like tacos.  The next class period, the girl rushed in again (late) and took her seat next to me again smelling like tacos.  The same scenario occurred over the next few classes but I did notice that the girl was arriving just a few minutes late rather than several.  We were making progress!  

One night on our break, the girl and I struck up a conversation by the water fountain. She told me she was a nursing student; I told her that I was studying medical record (now known as health information management). We both commented on how dreadful each other’s profession sounded. That night we were assigned lab partners and we paired up quickly.  Our project for the semester – dissect a black cat.  Are you kidding me?  Now, I’m no cat lover but I couldn’t imagine having to slice into this once living creature. The girl quickly agreed to do the slicing and I readily agreed to be the scribe  What a great team!  Our friendship began to grow and on lab nights, we would rush through our slicing and scribing and head out for a few drinks.  

We both successfully passed Anatomy and Physiology, graduated from college and followed our chosen professional paths. She's a successful nurse (I know first hand but that's a subject for another story) and I am teaching in the field of my profession.  That dreaded evening course was the beginning of a thirty year friendship. 

I wouldn’t trade this beautiful darlin’ for anything in this world. She’s been my rock but most of all, she forced me to find the fun side in me that had been buried for a very long time.  Our "first set" of children grew up together and we both went on to have a few more kids.  I love her like a sister and her children are like my nieces and nephews and her beautiful grand babies hold a special place in my heart.

You may be wondering why this beautiful girl rushed late into class for every period, nearly out of breath, and smelling like tacos? She had three small children to feed and to make sure they were properly cared for before she left home. This usually meant that she didn’t have time to feed herself. Taco Bell was on the way to the college; the nights she was only a few minutes late, the drive through wasn’t that busy!  By the way, you should have seen the inside of her car but that’s a whole other story!!!

I LOVE YOU LORI LOU!!  Aka Beautiful Darlin’